Find someone who is a catalyst for your power: (Working with Your Gift #3)
And vice versa.
Find someone who is a catalyst for your power.
In part one, we delved into recognizing our gifts, and in part two, we pondered how to accept them, even when they seemed more like a burden than a blessing. Today, in part three, let's jump into the realm of catalysts, those beings or experiences that enhance and amplify your gift, creating a more potent you.
Throughout my life, I've found inspiration in stories, myths, and even popular culture that showcase the fusion, or uniting, of power. From Dragon Ball Z to legendary heroes, the concept of finding a catalyst to amplify your strength is a recurring theme that has resonated with me.
A catalyst—person, group, or environment—empowers and elevates your gift, inspiring, challenging, and supporting your growth.
Different Types of Catalysts
In my life, I've stumbled upon various catalysts that have helped me “unfold” into the curious creature I am today.
Mutually Strengthening Relationships (complementing each other's gifts)
I've been fortunate enough to form friendships and partnerships with people whose unique gifts interlock with mine like pieces of a puzzle. Take, for example, my dear wife and I as we embark on projects together. I'm the one who conjures novel ideas, designs, or visions, yet I’m pretty bad—though getting better—when it comes to following through. Gigi, however, is a relentless force of nature who pushes us across the finish line. Together, we've achieved feats we could never have imagined, like renovating our humble abode and traversing the globe.
Friendly Competition (or sibling rivalry)
A friendly rivalry—often found between siblings in their younger years—can be a catalyst for propelling oneself to new heights. Having someone who shares a similar gift and constantly challenges you to improve is a powerful motivator. I recall the days of playing Smash and Halo with my younger brother, locked in a fierce but loving battle to outdo one another. (What say you to a game of Smash Sudden Death soon, dear brother? 😘)
Cheerleader-Type Support (from friends and family)
In my journey, I've found a wellspring of support from friends—both in the digital and physical realms—and family who believe in me and my gift without reservation. They provide the encouragement, motivation, and emotional sustenance I need to keep forging ahead, even when faced with seemingly insurmountable obstacles.
Honest Feedback from a Peer Group (learning & growing together)
Joining communities (like the lovely
for example) and other groups related to my passions—like my local group of fellow freelancers and entrepreneurs—have provided me with valuable feedback. The best constructive criticism, or True Sight™️, emanates from peers who share your taste in work and can offer feedback that genuinely illuminates your path. This also unlocks opportunities to learn from their experiences and to give back in your own unique way.
What better catalyst than a group of like-minded folks with whom you connect with?
Embracing the Catalyst
Reflecting on my personal journey of embracing my gift—my insatiable curiosity and passion for asking questions—I can see how different catalysts have contributed to my growth. From mentors who nurtured my inquisitiveness to peer groups of fellow knowledge-seekers, each connection has helped me unlock a fragment of my potential.
So, as you continue to work with your gift, be open to finding the catalyst that will help you unlock your full potential. It might materialize in the form of a person, a group, or an experience, but when you find it, embrace it and let it guide you to amplify the latent power within.
Do you have someone or something that’s a catalyst for your gifts? Let me know!
Warm regards,
Jibran